Skip navigation
Currently Being Moderated

Refresher on who vs. whom

Posted by CreateSpaceBlogger on Oct 17, 2017 5:31:05 AM

I get that many (most?) people hate the "who vs. whom" thing, are convinced they'll never understand it, and wish it would just go away forever. If you fall into that group, here's a simple way to look at "who vs. whom" that might shed some light.

If in a similar structure you would use the pronouns I, HE, SHE, WE, or THEY, use WHO.

To illustrate, the following are similar structures:

  • WE live on that street. We are the people WHO live on that street.
  • THEY went to the movies. They are the people WHO went to the movies.
  • SHE will do a great job. She is someone WHO will do a great job.
  • HE wrote the novel. He is the man WHO wrote the novel.

If in a similar structure you would use the pronouns ME, HIM, HER, US, or THEM, use WHOM.

Again, to illustrate, the following are similar structures:

  • You can trust ME. I am someone WHOM you can trust.
  • You believe HER. She is a person WHOM you believe.
  • You saw THEM at the movies. They are the ones WHOM you saw at the movies.
  • You chose US to babysit your kids. We are the people WHOM you chose to babysit your kids.

While the above examples are straightforward, it's easy to get tripped up by more complicated sentences such as:

  • She is someone WHO I believe will do a great job.

It's understandable to want to use WHOM in this example, because it's followed by "I believe." But you're not believing HER, you're believing that SHE will do a good job.

Rearrange that sentence, and the correct answer becomes clear:

  • She is someone WHO will do a good job, I believe.

I hope that helps clear up the confusion!

-Maria Contributors/MurnaneHeadshot.jpg

Maria Murnane is a paid CreateSpace contributor and the best-selling author of the Waverly Bryson series, Cassidy Lane, Katwalk, and Wait for the Rain. She also provides consulting services on book publishing and marketing. Have questions for Maria? You can find her at

You may also be interested in...

Grammar Tip: Be Careful with Tenses

Why Good Grammar Matters

1,202 Views Tags: self_publishing, authors, writing, grammar_tip, who_vs_whom

Apr 4, 2018 4:31 AM hellenrose    says:

I think the piece of information which you have provided here would be useful for all to understand the difference between who and whom. These types of blogs will be useful to learn English grammar thoroughly. Expecting more blogs like this. cable tv providers

May 17, 2018 4:58 AM AnnaMid    says:

Thanks, that was useful. I think you may also examine some interesting topics for research paper.

Sep 27, 2018 11:36 PM haroldlewis    says:


As everyone is searching for the best academic writing help

Nov 19, 2018 1:53 AM AlexaBliss    says:


There are some of the main reasons students need professional academic writing services UK